Thursday, September 4, 2008

Groomsmen Gifts

Congratulations, Mr. Groom-to-be!

By now, you've probably chosen your best man and groomsmen. If not, it's time to start seriously considering who will stand at your side when you say your vows. Brothers and college buddies are a common choice, but cousins and even dads are frequently asked to stand with the groom. Don't be afraid to gender bend, either. If your best pal is a gal, why not have a Best Maid or a groomswoman?

For the purposes of this post, let's just say you've chosen your attendants and they're all dudes. You've talked to them about their responsibilities, and now you want to show your appreciation for the help they've given you so far. That means it's time to start thinking about groomsmen gifts.

Maybe you're not a big shopper, and prefer to leave the shopping to your fiancee. No matter who is wielding the credit cards in your relationship, this post should give you some fun and memorable gift ideas. As always, your overall wedding budget should dictate your choices. Generally, the cost of groomsmen gifts is in proportion to the cost and size of the wedding and the responsibilities of the men.

You can go the conventional route and present each of your men with the same gift. You can't go wrong with traditional masculine gifts like monogrammed mugs, beer steins, toiletry sets, handkerchiefs, engraved pocket watches, engraved cuff links, manicure sets, or engraved money clips. If you do decide to give engraved gifts, you can be sure your attendants will treasure them for many years.

You can also individualize your gifts to each of your groomsmen's tastes. You don't have to give each of your attendants the same gift just because it's what's usually done. Nor do you have to give them the usual masculine gifts if that's not your style. Think about their likes and interests before you buy anything. Your best friend might appreciate a gift certificate to a bookstore more than sports tickets. Your brother might rather enjoy a nice meal with you at his favorite steak house.

Let what you know about each of your attendants be your guide and you can be sure they will treasure whatever you ultimately choose to give them.


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