Bridesmaids Gifts and Groomsmen Gifts

Gifts for wedding attendants are typically a nice way for the bride and groom to thank their bridesmaids and groomsmen for all of the money they've spent and the effort they've expended in helping to plan the perfect wedding. Choosing the right gift isn't always easy and can be downright stressful if you're not sure what your attendants might like to receive.

The following tips will help you make meaningful gift selections:

• When choosing personalized gifts for groomsmen or for bridesmaids, allow time to have the gifts personalized with the date and occasion if it's appropriate. This can take up to eight weeks from the time your order your items... and even longer if a mistake is made.

• Choose presents that mean something instead of gifts that are stereotypically wedding-y. Think of shared experiences, common interests in activities or books, and what will be most widely accepted. You don't have to get all of your attendants the same gift.

• On the other hand, to keep costs reasonable, choose the same gift for all of your attendants, perhaps only differing between men and women. A universal gift like an engraved or imprinted pen, carafe or mug or a CD of your favorite music can delight both genders. Ask yourself if your particular friends will be happy receiving the same gifts.

• Poll your attendants to see what they might like to receive as gifts. That way you'll be sure to get them something they want, and it might turn out to be less expensive and more special than whatever you had previously planned.

Good luck, and happy shopping!

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Denver Disc Jockeys
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Bridal Party Gifts

The secret to buying a great bridal party gift is thoughtfulness. Not money, not luxury, but thoughtfulness. You can spend all the money in the world on your bridesmaids and groomsmen, but that doesn't mean that you'll end up with the best attendants' gifts.

So what to buy? Start out by asking yourself what your friends want but might not buy for themselves. If nothing comes to mind, consider giving gifts that the wedding party can use at the wedding along with things that can be used for other occasions.

For example, how about buying beautiful handmade shawls for your bridesmaids? You can match them to your wedding colors, but think about choosing shawls in shades your ladies will love. Have fun with it. Wrap the shawls with a real cloth ribbon and place them where bridesmaids can find them. Another great gift is a gorgeous, roomy makeup bag filled with a generous supply of high-end makeup -- think Chanel, MAC, Laura Mercier. What woman doesn't love makeup? Especially if it is a splurgey brand she doesn't normally buy for herself.

For the groomsmens' gifts, high-quality, silver or gold cuff links are a traditional, but great gift. Box them beautifully, and, again, leave them where the groomsmen will find them. If you're looking for something a bit less traditional, gift certificates for lessons are perfect. Cooking lessons, parasailing lessons, a beer-tasting class... there is no limit to what you can give as a gift. If you have a groomsmen with a specific hobby -- perhaps your best man is a disc jockey -- buy a gift associated with that hobby.

Happy shopping!


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Denver Disc Jockeys
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Bridesmaids Gifts

Bridesmaid gifts shouldn't have to be a puzzle. While there's a tradition of giving things like jewelry or tote bags, there's no reason you can't just give your gals something they'd really like. After all, you wouldn't buy your best friend a Santa sweater just because it's Christmas, right? Right? Yes, you can gift your bridesmaids with generic stuff or you can charm your pals with challenging, mind-blowing bridesmaids gifts. Rather than giving a usual key chain or a pearl strand, think of each of your 'maids before buying anything. You know what they like!

If you're really pressed and can't think of a single thing they'd like, consider some of the gifts listed below.

Entertaining Gifts

__Tickets to a dinner or musical theater show
__Computer games or accessories
__Tiffany playing cards
__A purse size camera with a monogrammed case
__Subscription to magazines if she is an avid reader

Lavish Gifts

__Personalized stationery
__Designer makeup bag or clutch
__Monogrammed bath towels or washcloths
__A silk dress or cute shoes
__A gift certificate to a spa

Handmade Gifts

__Fanciful soaps
__Homemade candles
__Perfumed Bath salts
__Knitted woolen gloves with a matching scarf
__A personalized photo album

Unique Gifts

__Vintage ashtrays (for the smokers)
__Workout gear, if she is a fitness buff
__A travel kit embroidered with her initials
__A hot new cookbook and a cast iron pot
__New gardening tools and seeds from her favorite flower

The best bridesmaids gifts will always be those that reflect the personality of the individual receiving the gift. When you choose gifts your attendants will love, they'll be more apt to keep and treasure them for a long time. Can you say that about a paperweight? Only if the chick opening the package loves being a desk jockey!

Remember that your bridesmaids are special individuals who have probably taken a good amount of time out of their lives to help plan, decorate and be present for your wedding day. They should be appropriately thanked for those major contributions!


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Denver's Wedding Entertainment Specialists
Disc Jockeys, Live Wedding Bands, Event Entertainment Specialists
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